I don't put emphasis on color,size or appearances, or what you do for a living..I'm not interested in how much money a woman make.  I'm a disabled veteran..awesome personality I've been told.(I doðŸ˜Â😃). Not shy and verbally expressive..straight to the point😱
I think theres something very special about every woman...one of the most important thing we can do as a men  to make a woman feel attracted to us is to make her feel special then she may be lot less interested in the way you appear to her because of the way we make her feel about herself.
I myself do listen intently to what she has to say and more importantly what word she uses to express herself,I always try to create a context of relatedness. Focusing my attention and energy on listening to what she is saying to me trying to visualize or "feel" what she is saying
Everyone wants to be loved for who they really are, on the inside, as well as on the outside, to be accepted unconditionally by a lover,. Then it shall be born with the pleasure of looking at each other, it is fed with the necessity of seeing each other, it is concluded with the impossibility of Anything happening we might just two people that have a lot of chemistry and that we could just enjoy what it is we have but keep on looking for someone else. except me not with expectations but with hope. the we can Concentrating on thinking up new and exciting things to do for to each other instead of worrying about how long it will be until you see each other really helps, and makes things more fun. Other than that , I seek a friend first, the starting point, a confidant, a lover , someone adventurous, affectionate with sensual confidents.. spontaneous and great social skills.