AaronT's blog: "Why is it?"

Why is it that women ALWAYS seem to choose the asshole over the nice guy?  The controlling prick over the prince?  The bad boy image over the guy that seems to genuinely give a shit what they think and feel?

Perhaps some women and or other men have some insight as to the reasons for this.  I personally wish it wasn't so.  For the love of all that is holy or unholy, if you can do better than the nice guy, then do it, but why the hell do they always go worse?

Is there some foolish belief that the bad boy can be "tamed"?  That he can be "fixed" and made into the nice guy that is claimed to be sought after but never actually gets taken?  Is it some foolishness that says "He's not that bad" or "Maybe if I give him a chance, he'll be good to me"?

I hate to break it to ya ladies, but that's the reason why good guys are vanishing and the world is filling up with douchebags and pricks and countless other bottom feeders only out to get their dicks wet.  Sometimes it just hurts to fucking much to take a chance with someone.  Sometimes... it kills just to think of trying again because ALWAYS and WITHOUT FAIL... the asshole always gets first pick.

Anyhow... input please?  I'd like to hear some thoughts cuz I'm sick and tired of picking up the pieces of broken hearts...