Not sure where to start when it comes to oral? Don't worry - there are tried and tested techniques that are easy to learn. Read on to perfect your oral sex technique and make him smile.
The lollypop
This one is often used in porn films because it allows him to see exactly what’s going on. To fuel this fantasy, drop to your knees. (Depending on your heights, he might need to stand on something - you need good access to his testicles.)
Lift his penis to expose his testicles, then find the line that runs between them (it’s a tiny ridge that’s often a darker colour). Find where this starts on the underside of his testicles, and that’s where your lollypop lick starts - continuing, very slowly, to the tip of his penis. Repeat the full-length licks (at least 10), then move into the 'classic'.
The classic
Use one hand to hold the base of the penis and let saliva pool in your mouth (your tongue needs to be nice and slippery). Make a loose fist with your other hand and slide it up and down his penis, closing it when you reach the head.
Get the hand motion right first, then add your mouth, letting your hand act as an extension of it. Create a snug vacuum (but don’t suck), then slide up and down, your hand following your mouth. If you’re not the most coordinated person, hold your hand still at the base of the penis and simply move your mouth up and down.
The twist and swirl
Add oomph to the 'classic' or any oral technique by adding the 'twist and swirl'. The combination of firm fingers and a soft tongue feels great and it’s easy to master. As you’re using your hand to masturbate him, twist it slightly once it reaches the head and, at the same time, swirl the flat of your tongue around the rim of the head.
A simple but oh-so-effective move! Also try frenulum flicks: flicking it using a tensed tongue; or make like a butterfly and 'flutter' the frenulum.
Ball games
The greatest compliment you can give him is looking like you want to be down there - and one of the best ways to show this is to explore all of him. Take one or both testicles in your mouth, hum lightly, suck gently and/or swirl your tongue around. (If you don’t want to swallow, switching to testicle stimulation while working on him with your hand is a good alternative.)
Rimming
Rimming is oral anal stimulation (sometimes called analingus). It involves licking, flicking or inserting a stiff tongue into the anal passage and thrusting like a pretend penis. It feels great (for both sexes actually) because the area is highly sensitive and loaded with nerve endings.
If you’re worried about germs or STIs or are generally squeamish, put a barrier between it and you - try a piece of clingfilm or cut open a condom and lay it across the opening
