Why should you not look for the one that makes you happy? Why not keep looking ? Fear of being hurt is no reason not to look. Fear is just an excuse, its just an emotion. Yes its a strong one, but what do you have if you allow fear to win? You have emptiness, you have loneliness. Why not seek and maybe get hurt? Why not give love in return and see where it leads? THat one person might be the key to every door, the glow that fills the soul. Allowing fear to rule just allows its conterparts to take control.