I don't under-damn-stand it. There are tons of cute women out there who literally hate themselves. Some put up naked or graphic pictures of themselves so they can try to feel better about themselves, but more often than not they are reluctant at best to believe the comments such photos garner. I have read many profiles and seen many pics on this site and far too often cute girls are tagging full body pics with self deprecating remarks about how fat they are or about how they don't like the way they look. I wish they could see the beauty everyone else does. I heard a student of mine comment about bigger girls, he said they need love too, just not from him. That is fair, it takes a special eye to truly discern beauty and understand that not every woman should be a twig. Curves are wonderful and everyone has their own tastes. Personally I have dated women from a size 0 to a size 20 and I have to say they all have had complexes about being too fat, the size 0 was even a bulimic and complained more than most bigger girls about her "rolls." I am thankful when I read a homepage of a mid-sized or large woman and she states she is comfortable with herself, it is such a wonderful thing to hear. Everyone has hang-ups about themselves but you have to focus on the things that are good with yourself and if you obsess about your imperfections, and we all have them, you will hate yourself and that insecurity is what others see more than the imperfection.
Later.
