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Ever wonder WTF? What's wrong with me? Why you don't fit in to the cool kids... the ones you see and wonder why can't I be like that. Ever wonder what the awkward silences are in those moments when ppl seem to be checking you out.. Kind of analyzing you and wondering what you're about. Wondering where's all the social activity at?
Ever walk into a lounge and get a fist full of silence?
I have. And it sucks. Most ppl are turned off by the Rev. They don't want religion shoved down their throat. And most women are not looking especially for a cock down their throat.
When you're in the mood, when your feeling frisky and you gotta jive goin on and you get a fistf'tull of silence, note a few things.
1st. People who are new sometimes take time to warm up to. You can't just jump in and expect people to be the same around you when they have a history together. And the way you present yourself is important. Are you clean shaven and well presented? Do you strike them as the dirty old man type or someone with potential that they can spend their lives with?
The way you perceive things, the way you're approaching things, is essential. I don't bother with Rev statements pf spiritual nonsense. I can jive and let people make their own decisions. I do what I do for me and no one else.
When you approach fu for yourself and you truly have positivity and you encourage those around you, these awkward perspectives can change.
2nd Some people just have shitty attitudes that you can't fix. If they're continuing to be a problem dont encourage them further, don't give em what they want.. Play the narcissist game for a little while; sometimes its benefcial.
and finally you could just be interracting on a bad point of their life; and a lot of ppl have walls that they put up and don't take down for no one. So remember that there is that as well.
Whatever the case may be, look to being positive; don't allow others reactions or actions diminish your stance of encouragement.
Real positivity comes from within. When you have a stable foundation and world view and know where you stand and accept yourslef. You will see mass changes.
