Things I have learned as simply learned, difficult to swallow. As long as I learn by the things I have learned, I am wiser than the average bear. What I have learned follows....
~ When you think you know someone, look deeper. You will one day realize you did know them at all.
~ You are going to get your heart ripped out of your chest with no reason. Learn how to pick yourself up as quick as you can and go get help to sort it all out so you can move on in life as you piece your life back together.
~ Just because you are with the same person for 18 years does not mean you know them. I woke up one morning and realized I was sleeping with a stranger.
~ When you feel you can trust someone, know you are not alone when you are told by people that your man/husband was trying to lip-lock with them and your closest friends.
~ I learned that all that really matter to me was providing for my 2 perfect children and teaching all about life and all the values I could. I learned that I had to fight to get this priviledge. And I did everything I could until I won Custody. I am only left to find the man that blessed me with these men and bring him back out of the world he warped into. The vengence world that sucked him in alive.
~ I have learned I can't make someone be a father. I can only hope and pray that the best interest of my the child will take presidence and they will want to take the time to get to know the precious gift that was handed to them. Instead of what the needs and wants of themselves.
~ I have learned that I need only myself and God to get by in this life.
~ I have learned that not even the closest of friends can be trusted unless they have proven to love you for you. Other wise the ones that you thought you could trust with all of you, are the ones that hurt you the most.
~ If I were to die tomorrow, I know I am dieing the richest and most blessed women in the world. I have 10 of the greatest friends and two of the most perfect kids one could have.
