10.21.09 Update I've had to update this due to recent drama... Discovering that GUYS cause just as much drama as GIRLS do.

First off I'm not adding any new friends unless you have a salute or I already personally know you or you've been referred to me by someone I already know... NO EXCEPTIONS!!!

Secondly I have a lot of friends who serve in the military and I respect everyone of the for the job that they do for us every day. If anyone has a problem with that and thinks because of it I'm a "dog tag" chaser, then feel free to friend someone else or if your already on my friend list remove me as a friend. Just because I'm friends with them, doesn't mean I'm sleeping with them. I also have female friends that serve our country.

I'm not married, I'm currently not in a relationship with anyone so I don't have to answer to anyone but myself. I have guy friends and yes I'm a flirt but don't mistake that for me wanting to actually have sex with you. A lot of my friends are guys, if you have a problem with someone I'm friends with, deal with it and don't try and make me choose between you and them, you'll be the looser in that game.


I don't want to have sex with you!
I don't want to see your webcam!
I don't want to have phone sex with you!
If that's all your interested in, then don't bother with me! If your interested in chatting and making friends then hit me up. If you think that automatically gives you the right to see my private photos, it doesn't, so don't ask!

For the most part I'm a nice person and get along with just about anyone. Just because you request to be added as a friend doesn't mean I'll except your request! I'll admit I have mood swings (I've suffered from migraines for 20 years and have been taking a new preventative medicine for them, which causes mood swings), so if lucky you if you catch me on a good day, if you don't, deal with it and move on. If you don't have have a picture, I assure you I WON'T accept you as a friend.

I have two boys who mean more to me than anything in the world, and I mean anything, that includes any man! I just went back to school to get my degree in Photography, which has been an adventure in itself. I love to travel and hangout with my friends.