If you know what this symbol is then you know what i am about, do not allow the age of i to make you think one as young as i can not be experienced in the lifestyle.

I am Master, not simply a Dom, if you do not know the difference between the two i shall give brief differences here. While it is true all Masters/Mistresses are dominate, not all dominates are Masters. Most who consider them selves Masters tend to only be dominate in the bedroom, a real Master has experience in training slaves and submissives, who may have one or more slaves in their service, and whose life revolves around the BDSM lifestyle not just within the confinements of the bedroom.

I am looking to meet other Masters, Mistresses, slaves and submissives who are active in the BDSM lifestyle or submissive or slaves who are new to the lifestyle or curious about it. Though depending on who you ask you may get a different definition of slave and submissive, but to me a slave is collared and owned by a Master/Mistress, I tend to see subs as uncollared submissives who are either in training to become a slave or who are simply in the lifestyle yet not looking for a Master or Mistress.

While many who claim to be in the BDSM lifestyle as Masters and Mistresses, I believe this is not something that is merely gained within a few months, while one can know of the traits it takes to be a Master or Mistress, I believe it takes more then a few months and in most cases more then a few years.

Gaining the title of Master and Mistress, relates to not only ones knowledge of the lifestyle for knowledge of the lifestyle is the easy part, but it relates to more so ones experience, the submissives they have trained.

While some believe a Master/Mistress must have collared slaves I do not, I personally believe as long as you have trained submissives in the fetishes over either a vast number of subs over a vast number of fetishes, over a number of years OR you have trained a few subs who are very loyal to you and who are obedient then you can use the title Master or Mistress.

In my opinion there is no right or wrong way to be a Master or Mistress, as long as you and your slave live with the boundaries of the lifestyle such as they are submissive and obedient then how ever you choose to use them is up to you.

But do understand that simply being dominate in the bedroom and during sexual encounters does not warrant one the title of Master, being a BDSM Master is more then sex, it is about a connection with that submissive and their Master/Mistress.

At age ten i left home because of differences of ideals and morality with parents, and that is when i was introduced into the BDSM lifestyle...

From the age of 10-12 taught by 4 Doms and 2 Dommes, by being given literature on the lifestyle after i had showed interest to it to a submissive friend of mines (she was a female slave and i enjoyed how her Master had the control over her, and asked her Master about it and was given stuff to read on the lifestyle as well as given stuff from his friends who later became great friends of mines)

This time period took the least effort but the most concentration. During this time I was given many books to read. While most were related to the BDSM lifestyle others were books on ancient cultures, and even modern tribes in Africa and other countries that spoke of the submissive nature of woman in these parts.

From these books I learned many things. Most importantly that patience is the key when training a submissive woman, that I can not expect her to do everything right on the first time, especially if she has never done this before. As well as one must have respect to themselves enough to be able to respect his sub.

During this time I was also told by the Masters and Mistresses told me to began using yahoo groups and chat rooms in order to practice my dominate nature, they said if I could not be a dominate presence online to girls and young submissives that there was no way I would be able to be dominate when the girl/woman was standing in my presence kneeling in front of me.

So I complied, so during that time I started going into yahoo chat rooms and joining yahoo groups, I met several girls in the chat rooms who use to get on yahoo messenger and get on cam… while doing the orders that people in the chat room were telling them to them.

Within a few months I had a few girls who would only do orders that I told them to do, they would take photos or get on the webcam, to show that they did the task this was both for my enjoyment and evidence of my training in the lifestyle that I had gotten girls to do what they were ordered and they complied. Thus this level of my training was complete.

From the start of my training from this point a few years had gone by, so for the next few years, ages 13-14 was in my hands on training phase, where i helped all six of the Doms and Dommes setting up equipment and them allowing me to give permission and orders to their submissives, slaves and sluts.

During this stage of my training, for a young kid such as my self this was the most exciting part of the training. It was more or less my hands on phase of my training. During this time I helped the Masters and Mistresses, set up equipment as well assist them when training their submissives and slaves.

My first assist, was rather easy, it was in bondage, the sub was a masochist and was quite experiences in light, medium and heavy bondage, so my Mistress friend, told me a week prior on what we would be doing so after a few years of reading the books, and observing I was quite knowledgeable about it all already.

So when I got there, the several types of ropes, varying in lengths and width laid out in front of me with her slave on bended knee waiting to be bound by me, her slave was 22 so being only 13 at the time it was a bit weird and I was a bit nervous since it was my first time in actual practice other then the online subs which were great in helping me with training.

So anyway she first told me to bound her hands behind her back, so her slave kneeling position hands on lap, so I asked, the Mistress would she lift her arms up to bound them, then my Mistress friend said I said you can bound her, she has not been told to put her arms behind her back, then she told me with her eyes that I can have the control so I told her to lift her arms up and place them behind her back, she complied right away, so I bound her hands. Then I told her to lay flat as I bound her ankles as well. With the Mistress permission I wanted to inflict minor pain with candle wax, which isn’t much pain more of a bit of burn then a numbing sensation.

After that she wanted more pain and my mistress friend went and got these needles very thin needles, while before this I have had sex plenty of times, and found blood very erotic, the Mistress said she would show me first properly then she would let me try. So after a few needles through her skin on the arm, there wasn’t much blood but the little that there was, was a turn on to me. So after three times she asked me was I read as I said sure, she handed me a needle and told me to slowly take my time and simply put the needle through her skin along the same lines as her previous needles, with each piercing of the skin her slave let out a faint moaning sound which made it a bit more erotic. After a few moments of this, and then more bondage, it was over, while it was my first time I had a great time and learnt different types of bondage techniques.

Over the next few years I learned with each of the Masters and Mistresses using their slaves and subs in hundreds of kinks and gained the experience to be Strong enough to understand the lifestyle in its entirely, to understand the submissives, slaves, and sluts with respect yet still know they are for my usage.

I was asked what I think is the difference between a submissive, slave and slut. While I know this will change depending on who you ask, I think of a submissive as simply a sub that is uncollared, so is fair game to pursue from any Master or Mistress. I think of slaves as simply collared subs, and once a sub is collared then they are off limits to any other Master or Mistress. While a slut I think of is a sub/slave either in TPE 24/7 lifestyle, or one with very little limits in their submissiveness to their Master or Mistress.

During this time I trained subs who simply wanted to be trained, but really didn’t want a slave just yet, was enjoying the training and nurturing of my craft in kinks, as well as testing my limits to know what i am not into. Gaining more and more knowledge with each new sub I trained, even if I trained subs in the same kinks, they all had different reactions and feelings to it.

When training subs, I trained them from average kinks as eye restriction, bondage, to more extreme kinks as breathing control/asphyxia, extreme bondage, pain, degradation, humiliation and many other kinks, while of all the kinks I tried I have had some interest in, I do not have any interest in trying or even attempting scat or vomit play, as well as anything with any minors (16 and under), I see no sexual arousal or even a amusement in shitting on some one or vomiting on them. I have seen these kinks used on subs, I tend to see usually scat though is not limited to tends to be more Mistress based to do to their male subs. And vomit tends also to be more Mistress based to their female subs.

On down time, from time to time I would be training subs, when I was either bored or just wasn’t training a particular person at that time, I went back to older ways and went into yahoo groups and chat rooms and spoke with others in the lifestyle, sometimes training certain subs through webcams and emails.

At 15 I met a girl named Razhe, who was very submissive, and wanted me to train her; she had little limits and was willing to do what I asked. Years after I began training her, she had a very attractive friend who asked that I also train her, like Razhe, she had no real limits but her one limit was not coming out to family of her lifestyle, she felt their religious minds would not understand her choice.

A few years after that, when I was twenty, after 5 years of training Razhe, and strolling the scene with her I decided to take the final step and collar her, so from then on she was off limits to all but me. Since I was training her friend at more of an expedited speed, a year later I also collared her friend. Years later and both are still my slaves, and I still train many subs within their limits.

I enjoy training subs, and do train when I get the time either in person or through the net which can be much easier if the woman is serious. Through net I can order them to do anything that they can do in person with the exception of bondage since it is impossible to tell them tie their own hands behind their back and restrain their feet then ask them to do other stuff.

On a few cases I have had submissive couples who I had one do something to the other… then take photos of it, while these were usually female-female couples, I did on one occasion have a male-female couple online where I would tell him what to do to her and things of that such.

Since being in the lifestyle i have trained dozens of subs in hundreds of types of kinks and teaching them to be better submissives to what ever Dom or Domme that collars them in the future, and have knowledge of hundreds of kinks and have done over 100 different types in my long past in the lifestyle.