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If you know what this symbol is then you know what i am about, do not allow the age of i to make you think one as young as i cannot be experienced in the lifestyle.

I am Master, not simply a Dom, if you do not know the difference between the two i shall give brief differences here. While it is true all Masters/Mistresses are dominant, not all dominants are Masters. Most who consider themselves Masters tend to only be dominant in the bedroom, a real Master has experience in training slaves and submissives, who may have one or more slaves in their service, and whose life revolves around the BDSM lifestyle not just within the confinements of the bedroom.

I am looking to meet other Masters, Mistresses, slaves and submissives who are active in the BDSM lifestyle or submissive or slaves who are new to the lifestyle or curious about it. Though depending on who you ask you may get a different definition of slave and submissive, but to me a slave is collared and owned by a Master/Mistress, I tend to see subs as un-collared submissives who are either in training to become a slave or who are simply in the lifestyle yet not looking for a Master or Mistress.

While many who claim to be in the BDSM lifestyle as Masters and Mistresses, I believe this is not something that is merely gained within a few months, while one can know of the traits it takes to be a Master or Mistress, I believe it takes more than a few months and in most cases more than a few years.

Gaining the title of Master and Mistress, relates to not only ones knowledge of the lifestyle for knowledge of the lifestyle is the easy part, but it relates to more so ones experience, the submissives they have trained.

While some believe a Master/Mistress must have collared slaves I do not, I personally believe as long as you have trained submissives in the fetishes over either a vast number of subs over a vast number of fetishes, over a number of years OR you have trained a few subs who are very loyal to you and who are obedient then you can use the title Master or Mistress.

In my opinion there is no right or wrong way to be a Master or Mistress, as long as you and your slave live with the boundaries of the lifestyle such as they are submissive and obedient then how ever you choose to use them is up to you.

But do understand that simply being dominant in the bedroom and during sexual encounters does not warrant one the title of Master, being a BDSM Master is more than sex, it is about a connection with that submissive and their Master/Mistress


Those Interested: I have written down my personal history in the BDSM Lifestyle and if anyone wishes to see it simply send me a private message and I shall send to you.

While i enjoy music i am not one who has hundreds of bands i am not one who only listens to one genre of music.

While i like many types here is a list of some of the types of music i like are

Rock & Roll
R&B
Trance
Rap
Hip Hop
Black Metal
Soul
Oldies
Blues
Jazz


Some of my musical dislikes are
Christian Rock
Christian Pop
Gospel
...and other types of religious geared music

Not as in depth as others but hey when its music i have no real preference, if i like it i will listen to it, if i do not like it then i wont.

I am a huge movie and television fan...

My favorite television Shows are
Law & Order
Law & Order: Special Victims Unit
Law & Order Criminal Intent
Most Evil
...Favorite Channels are the History Channel, Military Channel, and Investigation Discovery Channel

some of my favorite Movies Are...

Saw (I-V) Nightmare on Elm Street Films Jason Films Halloween Films Manchurian Candidate The Descent Serpents & Rainbows Unrest Wicked Things Underworld Under World: Evolution Queen Of The Damned Pulp Fiction Requiem For A Dream across the universe

the butterfly effect i am legend 30 days of night shoot em' up let's go to prison boondock saints jay and silent bob strike back lucky number slevin the number 23 disturbia superbad donnie darko

planet terror deathproof kill bill vol. I & II reservoir dogs dawn of the dead i now pronounce you chuck and larry pirates of the carribean Cry Freedom Interview With The Vampire The Craft The Cell American History X

Anyone who Respects the code of Death before Dishonor

RELIGION/BELIEF


I believe that man is responsible for his own choices in life. That each man has their own morality meter within them, that we do not need religion to tell us what is right and what is wrong.

I am a Atheist, I will not bash your religion, but do not shove your religion down my throat. I will call you on it and debate you on it if need be.

I do like a good debate, so if you give me a good one i may save the conversation.

Do not assume that because I am a Atheist that I know nothing of your religion, to do so will be a grave mistake on your part, I have read up on all the worlds religions, to gain knowledge of personal self. So I do know about religions, I just make a personal choice not to believe in god and things affiliated with a God or organized religion.

I enjoy the idiocy that Atheism is a religion, the definition of religion is to believe in a Higher power(s) of some sort and worship them as entities over your self, Atheism couldn’t be further then a religion since Atheism is the belief that there is no God, that we are here.

In this world i believe religion separates more people than it actually brings together so i choose not to align my self with any one religion.

I believe that those that consider themselves saved have screw up the interpretation of their Gods words, and for the most part are screwed up and misrepresented, especially for those who use their Gods name as a means to judge and hate others.

I get asked this a lot so...do i believe that God exist, no, do i personally accept him/her as my personal savior, that will one day bring me to heaven...No!

I accept all i don't judge based on race, religion, belief or sexual preference, as long as you don't disrespect me and misrepresent your self in any kind of way then i won't disrespect you in any way.

But do not make the wrong assumption that i am anything, i believe personally that we are our own people, that as people we should try and promote the well being of others, if by some chance some one does not agree with this then we should first try with words then with force to change their minds... Screw the notion of we are all this or that, we are all individuals, as that we are our own people, to make our own fucked up mistakes in life... deal with it...





I write a lot, many short stories, long works of writing and poetry if you want to see my work please check out my Blogs, please if you read something, comment on it, if you liked it or not i want honest opinions only...DON'T BULLSHIT ME!


-Poetry-i love to read Langston Hughes and Maya Angelou i also write some as well once again you can check out my blogs for some of my work
Reading-mostly about my culture, so i enjoy reading black history books, but I love horror novels
movie-comedy and biographical mostly
shows-mind of mencia(comedy central) is funny as shit i also like lucky louie it is funny as shit, i like law and order (all of em) and i am addicted to court tv, the learning channel, the history channel and discovery channel particularly the crime and medical shows.

this should give u some idea about the person i am if it dont ask me some damn questions then

My biggest interest is learning and reading books on philosophy, religious books, history, and my favorite subject is the Grim Reaper and anything about the Grim Reaper, My favorite book about death is The Nine Divines: The Book of Death, although the book is over 400 pages long i compiled the most important information in a few paragraphs-please read and tellme what u thought


Death is a woman many do not know. She was a high level angel and the lover of Lucifer himself, but she was a devout follower and believer in God. When Lucifer rebelled and then revolted against God Death joined Lucifer’s side for he was her lover. Upon completion of the battle Lucifer and his minions and followers were cast out of heaven and fell through Earth, earth is a place where demons cannot live for its atmosphere burns their flesh, but Death knowing that as long as hells gate, a gate that could only be closed by a demon from the outside, remained open that Lucifer could rise again so she endured earths atmosphere and closed the gate. Earths atmosphere began to burn away the flesh off of Deaths body, god seeing this knew he had to do something, he left heaven for the first time and came to earth to speak to Death, he knew that she could not be allowed back in heaven for she had rebelled against him, but he did not want to leave her on earth a place she would not survive. So he gave her the job as soul reaper for all eternity, he gave her the black robe to cover up her body since her flesh had been burned away he also had given her the scythe for it was a powerful divine weapon only given to high level angelic beings. Death is a fascinating spirit for she does not work for heaven or hell but is governed by both, heaven and hell both needs a constant supply of souls to continue going so with out the spirit of Death they would surely crumble. She is not given enough credit for her work in the world even though in some eyes she has the most important job, it is her who collects should that keep the heavens afloat and hells gate closed.

MY FAVORITE QUOTATION
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
Your playing small does not serve the world; there is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure about you.
We were all meant to shine as children ... it is not just in some of us, it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same as we are liberated from our own fear. Our presence automatically liberates others"
- Marianne Williamson -