IrishSoul's blog: "Trust & lack of...."

 We spend our lives meeting people, making friends, having our first crush, dating, experiencing life.   we all make  mistakes, we all have sad moments, we have moments we will always remember, the good and the bad.   So if someone doesn't want to be with another, even if they thought that is what they wanted.  It is their right to say I'm sorry it isn't working and move on.  We have to accept those things, and learn from them.  Unfortunately their are some people who cant handle the rejection and the heart ache.  No one likes hurting anyone, no one who cares that is.   We cant always help this though, sometimes we are going to hurt people. That doesn't make us a bad person, is most definitely make us a liar. So why go out of your way making assumptions, deliberately hurting others to make your "point".   Ultimately it only hurts one person, "YOU". No one wants to be with anyone who is going to drag out personal information about them, true or false just because they find that your not the right person.   I'm sure I could have handled things a bit differently, but I would never go out of my way to hurt anyone. That is something you have made very clear to be your Goal.  Here is the sad thing about that, my past is not a pretty one, I'm the first to admit it, and I have payed my dues for my mistakes.  So ill be dammed if Ill let any anyone make me into something I'm not and how I go about that is simple. I wont attack them, I wont try to make them something they are not and I don't go and look up information on the Internet and threaten them with it.  especially if the information they find is about many people. Look up your name on Google, I'm willing to bet most who do will find a HUGE number of people with the same name.   So anything you find would be all assumptions, their is no way to prove anything with that information and you would be a fool to think you could.  Bottom line, if you cant take rejection you have no business getting involved with anyone, so grow up and face the facts.  I DIDN'T FEEL THAT YOU WERE SOMEONE I WANTED TO BE WITH AND THAT IS WHY I TOLD YOU I THOUGHT IT BEST WE NO LONGER saw each other. That doesn't mean it is time to trash me because you were hurt, and lie about everything, trying to make it out like i am some sort of player or con.   If I was a Con or Player, don't you think I would have several other ladies in here supporting your claims, saying I played them as well. Hell I was so stupid to trust you enough to have my password to the account so you would know I wasn't playing you. It took me 2 days to know OH HELL NO, but I was as polite as I could be, despite your accusations and paranoid delusions, your X Boyfriend even said he believed your sister over your stories. weather what he said was true or false the fact remains, wth was he doing their in the first place. Your first mistake if you wanted to meet someone and get to know them.  Everything from the start was all wrong, I tried to leave twice, but you didn't want me to go,,, asked me to stay and talk things out. I did, twice... I should have left right then and their.  

 Enough said, so let it go and stop making yourself look like a psychotic vindictive woman.  I'm sorry your Heart and pride was hurt but if someone doesn't like someone or they just know it could never work, wouldn't you rather it end then for that person lie and stay with you.... I think not.

  So if all this makes me a CON and a Liar, then dam straight I am a Liar and I am proud of it.  So keep up your games, I'm tired of it and I am sure half of Fubar is tired of it, but I do want to thank you for one thing, I met someone who I would have never spoken to more than once or twice if it wasn't for your trying to make her think i was some sort of liar or CON.  got yourself caught in a Lie with her, that is why she started talking to me more. Now we are very close and as friends we are closer than you and I could have ever been.  Karma is a Bitch so maybe if you wake up soon enough you'll realize the true reason you have no one. Because no one wants to live in a life of drama and paranoid delusion's.  This is the last time I will say anything about this and it will be the last time I deal with your Crap.  So make your next set of choices wisely, with all the threats and slander you have sent me in your emails i could make your life as you know it Hell..   Get over it

    I apologise to all my friends who have had to see this BS, but enough is enough.