I wrote a mum today and posted it. Got alot of comments that said what I thought they should have said...I DID make the right decision....People have away of dragging you down...and when you try to step away,they cant seem to let go...At that point..you have to shove them away...I am very happy in my life now without this person and at one point in life I didnt think I could be....I want to thanks my Family for being there for me...and ALWAYS having my bad thru the good times and bad...I love what few friends I have know...and most important...My Family ARE my best friends...