Have you ever had one of those days where things annoy you until you want to snap at someone? People lying, taking advantage of others. Having a closed mind and judging things they don't know. Blaming mood swing and the inablity to control your tongue on being bi-polor or uni-polor. Oh I was drunk I didn't know what I was doing. Why do people think because they are drunk, on drugs or bi/uni polor that they are unaccountable for thier actions? You do something suck it up and deal with the reprcussions.
You want to go off on someone for something they did? Be straight up and do it one on one. I don't want to hear it or have it taken out on me. If I am pissed I do the adult thing and take it to that person not the whole world. Don't blame it on a medical reason, drunk or drugs that you can't help yourself. It doesn't fly with me and you lose any respect I had for you.
Also people take responsability for the raising of your kids. I am so tired of people dropping kids in front of a computer or tv and then wondering where you lost control. My mom worked two jobs ,went to school and still managed to know what us kids were doing and who we were with at all times. If you wonder how you lost control try looking at how often you figured the kids could just watch tv or run around with kids you don't know.
So many people bitch about having drama in thier lives. Most hate it while some thrive on it . How much of it do you allow into your life? We all have to deal with some drama due to loved ones and friends.But why do so many people go out of thier way it seems to be around Drama queens? If you know someone is going to cause issues cut them out of your life if the drama isn't worth it. To be on CT you have to be 18 which means your an adult. Again you are responsible for your own actions. You let the drama in instead of nipping it in the bud before it gets out of hand.
Another thing. Don't lie. You will be caught. Why lie? Is this another way of avoiding responsability for something you did or didn't do? This only adds to hurt feelings, loss of respect and drama. If you fuck up admit it. If your going to screw around on someone be adult and break up with the person. Why screw up and twist another persons life over something so stupid? I know so many women and men who have trust issues because thier other half instead of being a man or a woman in the relationship and breaking it off cheated. It hurts and just screws up the other person.
I guess pretty much people grow the hell up. We are all supossed to be adults. Don't cause drama, don't try and bring drama into my life it isn't going to work. Above all be responsible for your own actions. If I have an issue with you trust me I will not be speaking with you or I will bring it to you privately not in the middle of a lounge or group of people . So if you have any issues over what I say ,do or my views on life bring them to me or you won't like how I react.
