Well, this is about the man rather than the woman in this. Thanatos isn't included in this at all, this is about my children's godmother and the pr*ck she married. She let it slide once, he messed around on her when she was physically incapable of having sex. She let it slide because she understands he's human. Well, this time there was no call. He was an ass all around, and so was her so called friend, whom he got pregnant. She finally left him, and no it doesn't make me all that happy to see her sad, hazards of being friends with your ex, you know that they've been through it before, one way or another. This ex, though, is also one of my best friends. I hate that she married a jerk that didn't know what he had, and I hope to god that he knows what he's lost. He didn't seem too busted up about it, but still, she's surviving, and I hope it's in spite of him rather than because of him. This man didn't deserve her, and definitely didn't deserve her forgiveness. Cheaters are never in the right, and her "friend" she's just as culpable as he is in this as far as I'm concerned. I knew something was going to happen, something that was going to hurt my friend. I hate that she has to go through this, see, she just found out she's pregnant, and already has a two year old. It's not right that men walk all over us just because of this or that. I know she's smart, but I never understood her letting him move the other girl in. She is not the thickheaded one, her jerk of a soon to be ex is, he should've known what he had, I didn't and I learned that I was still in love with her when we broke up in high school. She is the toughest girl I've ever met, and I hope she decides to move back to our town and stay around, my kids love their godmother when they get to see her, and I miss my friend. Hopefully if she reads this she will not think I'm horrible for posting this, since I don't use names to be kind. But she did do right by leaving his cheating prick ass and taking the baby, it's a long hard road and I hope that she knows I'm here for her and those babies. If she wants I'll take the new one for a night, or even her oldest so she can sleep. She deserves that much from me, you see, this girl, when my son was newborn, got her $100 check from work, and promptly took fifty of it, and bought groceries for me and my house, since my son was the only one with food to eat, and when my son was still really small, he didn't sleep at night... EVER, and I didn't sleep at night in kind, so she turned around, and stayed up with my baby all night just so I could get a good night's sleep. This girl is the personification of kindness, I got robbed, she bought me a knife for protection, I cried, she was my shoulder to cry on, this girl cleaned the giant mess I called my house when I was pregnant for fear I would hurt myself and go into premature labor. She was the best and sanest girlfriend I ever had, in both senses of the word, friend and girlfriend, and she deserves much better than her jerk of a husband. He treated her well enough to a point, enough is enough and I hope he doesn't think I'm gonna be friendly when I see him in the future, since they are taking one last trip together to come back here to Florida, and she is going to decide where she's going to live. With any luck, she'll choose the sunshine state and stick around, but I'm greedy, she's the only friend I have that knows EXACTLY what I went through with my son, because, as a great friend, she suffered beside me because I needed a friend, and she went above and beyond in that department. If you know who I'm talking about, then drop her a line and give kudos for being brave, tough, and kind. If you don't, just hope you have friends who will drop everything like she would, to do the simplest task, and help you out when you need it the most but are too proud to admit it.
Note: to my friend, you know who you are, you rock and I love you, not like I thought I did in high school, but like blood, and if you feel like i should pull this down, I will. I adore you as a friend, and me and my family love and appreciate you, and if you need a place to sleep, I don't have much, but it's a kinder home than the one you left and I hope that you know that we love you and your son. Hopefully you will take advantage of my open door policy freely and often. If you decide to come down, if you want to stay at my place while you're getting your utilities taken care of, I don't have a big house, but it's a warm one, and hopefully you will come stay for a few days.
