ok people, especially ladies... i'm putting this up here for moments of weakness women may have while dating married men... here goes....
HE IS NOT GOING TO LEAVE HIS WIFE !!!
it's just not gonna happen. AND!! if by some cosmic chance the guy does leave his wife, why the hell would you want to be with someone that you KNOW is gonna cheat on you!?!?! and don't give me that "but it's diffrent with us... his wife blah blah blah bad stuff blah blah blah"
ok, first off, he's married... so at some point in time he proooooobably was sweet talkin his wife. telling her how much he loves her and blah blah blah....
now second, what' he telling you? NO WAIT! DON'T ANSWER THAT! let me do it for you.. "i love you, i want to be with you and only you, things will be diffrent soon... all i have to do (before leaving his wife) is... [insert bullshit statement here]" he's lieing, well, part of him is telling the truth. it just happens to be the part that he's always pestering you about...
and lastly, for now, HE'S CHEATING ON YOU!!!! ok, so, unless there are some polyamorous arrangements goin on cause that's what you guys are into.. he's cheating on you... with his wife. now i want you to think about that one.. ok traditionally in a relationship you love each other and are with only each other, not because you HAVE to be, but because you WANT to be with only that one person... ya followin me here? good. so in reality what is goin on? hmmmm... he loves you but goes home to her.... now, why is he talking about divorce to start with? hmmmmm.. unsatisfied at home? what are those people called that have sex with other people with the promise of some sort of reward? oh yeah... hookers.. anyway... if you're the g/f know it, accept it, and realize you are there for sex and not much else (maybe the occasional escape from "her bitching")
if you are the wife, i suggest you either step it up in the bedroom and not use lack of sex as a punishment... remember A rooster crows no matter where it is, and if the rooster ain't crowin in the hen house....... well i'm sure you can firgure that out.
ok, a female friend is going through that right now, just had to vent and leave her some refrence material for when she has a moment of weakness, or idiocy... :)
