The smallest choices one makes can be so simple but yet leave the biggest impact on one's life and loved ones. So before you go and make even the smallest decisions in your life; make sure you know how it's going to affect you and those close to you. Never make life changing decisions without thinking of it through and weighing all the options first. Because the choices you make can afflict upon your children and/or your closest family and friends. The wrong choices can perminately damage one's life and one's surroundings. So before making any decisions; listen to your heart and not your head or anyone else. Losten to your closest friends or family member's opinions and/or advice, but let your heart make the decisions. Besides, you are your own person and noone can tell you how you should live your life or raise your children. Just do your best and all will end up well. You are the strongest person in your life right now and you are the only one that knows what is best for you and your family.