someone else posted this, i think its from the book he's just not that into you... read it!
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
> If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
> Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
> Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
> Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant
> to be.
> Slower is better.
> Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly
> happy.
> If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
> deserve
> then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a
> friend.
> Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
> probably is.
> Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
> yourself
> a year later for staying when things are not better.
> The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
> Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
> women.
> He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
> Why would he treat you any differently?
> Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
> Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
> If something bothers you, speak up.
> You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
> Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if
> he has
> more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
>
> He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
> Never let a man define who you are.
> Never borrow someone else's man.
> Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
> A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
> All men are NOT dogs.
> You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a
> two-way street.
> You need time to heal between
> relationships.......................there is nothing cute about
> baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
> You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
> consists
> of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
> supplementary.
> > Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are,
> and your
> always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
> Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you
> need.
> Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
> Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
>
> RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
> They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
> appreciate
> them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
>
> BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............