After reading some comments on a mumm today I had the urge to go on a small rant.
First things first vanilla people who think they have a fucken idea about dominance and submission need to get a clue.
1. Submission dose not = a doormat
2. Submission dose not = wussy
3. Submission is not about being less of a person.
If anything its harder then most in the vanilla world would ever understand. From birth men are taught to be dominate and in control, being submissive as a man is some how looked down on as being less then a man. News flash numb nuts, it takes a whole lot more confidence and self knowing to be able to buck the tide and be submissive if that’s what you truly are.
Just because I choose to submit to a special somebody doesn’t mean I will submit to just anybody. And to get put into a classification I don’t fit in weak, wussy, ECT.
Means 1. You have no fucken idea who I am
and
2. Your making a blanket statement based on the lames punks you deal with in your watered down fake walled up lives.
I submit because I chose to submit.
I do it because it makes me feel good to please them and that takes a whole lot more balls then to just go along with the status quo in the cookie cutter world most people live in.
I wonder how many so called dominate people are secure with themselves enough to kneel down before the person they care for and surrender themselves to that person. To be able to open up and be completely and be totally vulnerable because they can trust the other enough to respect and honor the gift that is submission.
ok im done with my rant