ok... this is a Blog.. not a mumm, these are my thoughts, not an opinion poll.
Now that, that, is said:
Why are people so friggin stupid? Specifically why do people have to have drama in their lives? Self generated drama? I have been out of the dating scene for well over 12 years, and before that I was too caught up in my life as a soldier to seriously date any one... ok there was one, you caught me. But now, I am starting to pay more attention to what people I know are saying about their Girlfriends/Boyfriends and it seems that there is just too much self generated Drama. Why aren't people just up front and honest with each other from the beginning? "hey I like you, lets spend time together, but I'm not interested in being in a monogamous relationship." that seems to me like a pretty straight forward understanding of what the person wants... namely a friend with benefits package. On a daily basis I hear about "oh this girl!!!" or "he is driving me batty!" yep she actually said that :-) and she is 19. LOL
Wouldn't life just be better if everybody said what the hell they were thinking instead of trying to please every body with non-committal double talk?