so, dustin n I are over but we're not on bad terms...after so long we've decided we are better friends than we are anything else.currently we're still living together but thats cause I dont want to move my kids all over the place and he and I can work it as roommates for the time being..it wont be for long since Ive been offered a good job in NYC. I'll have to relocate but I think its about time for a new beginning. I will most likely be moving to long island since I dont want to live in the city with my kids. Im nervous about not really knowing many people there but, Nay has offered to move there with me so I wont be alone. I cant even put into words exactly how happy that makes me..he's been one of my best friends for over 2 years n it means so much to me that he is willing to move across the country for me. I think this move and this job n starting over in general will be in the best interest of my family n by my family I mean my kids and I ..we've gone a long time on a path that wasnt exactly the best n now its our time to be happy. I know there are people in mylife that wont want me to move n wont understand why I feel its necessary but, all I can say is I feel that its right and after all..it is my life to live..its time to do me. Thanks for taking the time to read n learn a lil more about my life..kisses