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My question at the moment: Why is it that there is a perception that because a woman is a large woman that she should lower her personal standards and "take whatever she can get"? Do most men think this? If so, why? Is the perception out there that larger size women are insecure, have a low self-esteem, are meek and weak and loathing of themselves that they will go out with anyone who offers? I cannot tell you the types of comments I've heard from various guys that I've chatted with on-line and in person -- they truly think that because I am a BBW that I will take anything that offers and that I will do anything they want to keep him at my side. There was one guy I met on-line and we chatted for a little while. I told him upfront that I was a BBW and if he had issues with that to let me know. He said he was only seeking BBW types. So we arranged it and I met him at my local book store for a face-to-face meeting. Mind you, he had seen a few picturs of me. When we met - first he had posted very old photos of himself and this jerk said to me (when I told him we just were not compatible) "well you shouldn't be picky - I'm sure you don't get many chances to date." I told him "there's the door, don't let it hit you on the ass on the way out". Well I'm here to tell you, so guys listen up -- not all women who are categorized as "BBW" are so loathing and down on themselves that they will take your shit. No woman should be treated like dirt or like she's inferior to you. Many BBWs, myself included, have high self-esteems, are self-confident, self-sufficient and would rather be single and happy than in a relationship with any male jerk. Any man can be replaced by our battery operated friend. I would rather have close amazing friends to spend my time with than some idiot who thinks I should kiss the ground he walks on -- while he walks over me and kicks dirt in my face in the process. I am quite content with my own company that I don't need to be taken out to dinner and a movie -- I'm quite capable of taking myself. I don't need a "man" to make myself complete - I'm already there. There is quite a difference between "needing someone" and "wanting someone". It would be nice to have a special someone in my life but I don't need them to survive and be happy. And it seems to take these guys by surprise. So guys (and gals), I would like your input on this. Is this truly the perception guys have about BBWs? Or have I just met more jerks than real men?
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