ReLaTiONsHiPs..=)
Current mood: calm
okay..so once again im sleepless in wisconsin so im browsing my friends page..and i come upon this writing..=) I absolutely loved this girls insight..so i asked if i could steal it to share...=) here it goes..=)
Relationships
Heartache, and heartbreak go hand in hand when a relationship ends..
Your confidence is shattered, your pride is broken, and the light at the end
of the tunnel seems too distant to even try to reach. The good news, is that
it all eventually gets better. Days, weeks, or months. We all handle break
ups differently. While some seemingly pick up and move on very quickly,
others tend to wallow in self pity and depression for a very long time.
The quickest way to lessen the heartbreak in my experiences is to accept
the pain, and allow yourself to grieve. Don't try to bury it and act as if the
heartache isn't there. It eventually needs to be released. Write a
heartbreak poem and let your feelings go. Accept the things that you
cannot change. Nobody is perfect, and try to learn from mistakes that you
may have made in your relationship. You have grown as a person, and
your next mate will surely see it.
so there you have it...a wisdom from another beautiful gal...who of course had her heart broken 2...=) i truly believe that with love comes much sorrow...=) cuz sometimes its gonna work out and sometimes i guess its not..and for the time or times it doesnt..it HURTS so much..you cant imagine anything worse then how you feel right at that moment..=) And you worry and wonder if you will never make it through this...=)
but i agree...losing someone you love can be like losing someone 2 death...so grieving and letting go is essential to the process..=) Realization that you arent gonna be with that person is probably the hardest thing to imagine..you probably wake up and go to bed wondering why not me..what went wrong...did i not do enough..was i not good enough..what more could i of done..then as time passes you may go through the what are they doing..who are they with phase and then finally the bitterness and hurt goes away and you just realize that if it was meant to be...it wouldnt of ended..PERIOD...=)
with that said..remember this...the ONLY people you need in your life..are those who needs you in THEIRS...=)
