CirCumstantial Sinn3r No Salute No Add's blog: "RECIPE FOR A GOOD RELATIONSHIP"

This Morning I read a blog and this blog has been on my mind all day. Yes I know this the internet and we can meet all kinds of wierdos.We can meet people that really arent who they say they are we can meet people that are total freaks. Hell its hard to tell sometimes who we really are typing to. But sometimes we take it a step further and call some of these people and start to kinda get to know them enough that yes you do get a feel for who they are. Then even after that some decide to take it another step further and actually meet ... and it works for them. My cousin met his wife 7 yrs ago on the net in a chatroom and they have two beautiful little girls and very happy. So sometimes these things work. But as for the blog I read today, was a friend I have on here and I read some really sad things that really made me think .. yes again this is the internet but sometimes I think we do really need to consider the people we see or type to on a daily basis are real whether there pics are always or not and some are here for there own reasons. Some get caught up in fu-land sometimes more then they should but these people have feelings. And I hope my friend who wrote this blog today knows that not everyone is like that person he wrote about. There are good people out here ... just becareful people can be decieving and like sometimes living in fantasies dont become one.

Who I am ... I close my eyes and lift my head to the sky and feel the warmth of the sun on my face. The sky I know is so blue and soft billowy cottony clouds floating all around making this day so beautiful . I feel a breeze blowing only slightly to add its own specialness to this day. I open my eyes and there before me is a field of Daisies growing so thick and beautiful wild between the long overgrown grass. I begin walking in this field my hands out beside me palms down flat feeling the grass tickling my soft palms bringing a smile to my lips.I stop and close my eyes and head up letting the sun continue to warm my face still smiling and I smell ... yessss thats what it is ... the sweet smell of honeysuckle what a sweet scent my mouth watering for the small sweet drop of nector of the honeysuckle blossom. Opening my eyes and looking for the blossom and find a shade tree in the distance I walk towards it still teased by the scent of sweetness. I finally cross the distance between me and the tree and sit there thanking the Lord for this day and all that hes given to me ... for this day ... maybe only in my imagination but its real somewhere because its who I am and he created us both ... this day and Who I Am!!!!!!

I was in a relationship and I realized a few things while I was in it ... I always believed LOVE was the number one emotion but I was wrong. Its TRUST when you begin the relationship the first thing you give is TRUST always. LOVE is something you begin feeling stronger and stronger over a time. Then something happens and the TRUST crumbles. Then we have to bring out FORGIVENESS. Thats a hard one sometimes easier said then done. Can you really forgive and walk away and say ok it is alright and really mean it? Then theres PATIENCE cause theres gonna be times after the TRUST was broken when you ask yourself WHERE ... WHEN... WHY...WHAT ? And after awhile those questions become a pain in the ass to both of you , you for having to ask them doubting all the time and him because of guilt or vice versa. So please if your in love and you trust this person, there not perfect and they will make mistakes so remember to have patience and to forgive them. And last but not least remember APPRECIATION. Always appreciate one another look into her face or his face and think about how this person affects your life and if they werent there how you would feel. If you bake a cake and leave out 1 ingredient the cake crumbles. Remember LOVE,TRUST,PATIENCE,FORGIVENESS and APPRECIATION !!!!