Normally, I'm alittle too laid-back & non-chalant for my own good &, often times, even for the good of others...but that's just me. I often don't feel the need to stress much urgency for anything because I'm an observer of life- I like to sit back & see how it shapes & forms itself in contrast to whatever environment I'm in. I don't talk much but I will express my opinion when it's better gathered, however I'm very misinterpreted when I do. I try to speak the truth of any situation while speaking the reality of it from both perspectives. If it's to be that I mistakenly project myself invalidly, causing those misinterpretations between myself & whoever, so be it! Maybe guys like me aren't meant to be understood or agreed upon. But this doesn't halter the unity I carry within myself for both perspectives to be gathered & considered when being asked a question or for advice. Nah! But anyway, let me get off of my tangent...