Many of us have or will be in love with another person. We will desire to always have this person in our lives, we will think about them constantly, we will dream about them, and we will talk about them to anybody who will listen. So, I ask why is it that when we feel all of these beautiful emotions about someone that we find it difficult to express our feelings to the person we feel so strongly about?
I have over time listen to my friend's dreamy eyes and giddy as they talk about the man or woman that they have fallen in love with. But, if you were to ask them of they have said the words "I Love you" they will say, "No, I want him or her to say it first". They fear that this person that they have these amazing feelings for won't feel the same way.
Everyone wants to be in love, and to have those feeling returned.
Many people miss out on that, that they desire because of fear. We cannot control what someone else thinks or feels, but we can without being aware of it let our fear affect the direction our relationship will go in because of our lack of communication not saying the things that we know deep inside need to be said.
There is no room for ego and pride in a relationship. Our love for another and our relationships with them should be celebrated, appreciated, and honored. We should be able to communicate our feelings to our partners as easily as we talk to our friends about them.
