-------READ THIS VERY SLOWLY... IT'S PRETTY PROFOUND.
Too many people put off something that brings them joy just
because they haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedule,
didn't know it was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine.
I got to thinking one day about all those people on the Titanic
who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut
back. From then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible.
How many women out there will eat at home because their husband
didn't suggest going out to dinner until after something had been
thawed? Does the word "refrigeration" mean nothing to you?
How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence
while you watched 'Jeopardy' on television?
I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, "How about
going to lunch in a half hour?" She would gas up and stammer, "I can't.
I have clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known
yesterday, I had a late breakfast, It looks like rain." And my personal
favorite: "It's Monday." She died a few years ago. We never did have
lunch together.
Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to
schedule our headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to
ourselves when all the conditions are perfect!
We'll go back and visit the grandparents when we get the kid
toilet-trained. We'll entertain when we replace the living-room carpet.
We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college.
Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get
shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One
morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a litany of
"I'm going to," "I plan on," and "Someday, when things are settled down
a bit."
When anyone calls my 'seize the moment' friend, she is open to
adventure and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas.
Her enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five
minutes, and you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Roller
blades and skip an elevator for a bungee cord.
My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice
cream. It's just that I might as well apply it directly to my stomach
with a spatula and eliminate the digestive process. The other day, I
stopped the car and bought a triple-decker. If my car had hit an
iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy.
Now...go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to...not
something on your SHOULD DO list. If you were going to die soon and had
only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would
you say?
And why are you waiting?
Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand why I
sent this to you.
Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round or
listened to the rain lapping on the ground? Ever followed a butterfly's
erratic flight or gazed at the sun into the fading night? Do you run
through each day on the fly? When you ask, "How are you?" Do you hear
the reply?
When the day is done, do you lie in your bed with the next
hundred chores running through your head? Ever told your child, "We'll
do it tomorrow." And in your haste, not see his sorrow? Ever lost
touch? Let a good friendship die? Just call to say "Hi"?
When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like an
unopened gift... Thrown away....
Life is not a race. Take it slower.
Hear the music before the song is over.
It's National Friendship and FAMILY WEEK
Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you
consider a FRIEND.
If it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a circle of
friends.
To those I have sent this to... I cherish our friendship and
appreciate all you do.
"Life may not be the party we hoped for... but while we are
here we might as well dance!"