Fu**ing around is the behaviour of animals. We are no longer apes, we have evolved into a species that have discovered moral standards for conduct in a civilized society. Without these standards, there is no society, just chaos. I know I write generally when I write 'standards', but I am confident that anyone understands what standards I am referring to. Fornication is right up there with murder. The fact that they could be of equal sin makes sense to me because it seems to me that when a young girl or woman is burned by the guy who takes her virginity, who either ditched her, or demonstrated some other form of apathy to the resulting emotional and spiritual bond the female felt for him, something in her dies and only emptiness is left which is replaced with something sinister. She loses all hope, and no longer has a soul, and what replaces the good virgin spirit, is the pure vengeful evil of a slutty temptress who shows no further mercy for the world, especially none for the men who live in it. Likewise, the act of killing would have a similar affect.