So almost everyone says it's always better to be positive then to be negative. Yeah, maybe it is, though those are people who only have positive things happen to them.
I seem to find that if I don't get my hopes up about things, when they don't work out then it doesn't hurt me as much. Sounds stupid I know, but it gets harder and harder to be positive when everything around you just gets crappier and crappier.
Once one bad thing happens all it does is snowball and that's exactly what's been going on, so once again how can someone be positive when everything's going wrong????!!!!