What the hell is wrong with half of you? Don't you realize most of the guys you're chatting with are taken, married, whatever? That they're posting other people's photos? That they are rarely what they say they are? Haven't you figured out that they're just fooling you into cyber-sex so they can get their rocks off? And I can't believe those of you dumb enough to web-cam the act or these guys!!! What the hell are you thinking? Despite what they tell you, most are not 1) single; 2) divorced; 3) in the process of 1 or 2. I mean really, what kind of connection are you going to have with someone halfway across the continent - or the world? You are NOT going to find a relationship here.
Wake up and get some self-respect! Believe me, you are NOT the pathetic women you are allowing yourselves to become. If you want to meet someone, leave your damn house and go out. Go out with friends, take walks, bark at the moon - whatever floats your boat. If you find someone, great! If not, learn to be happy with yourself and the rest will fall into place. But really, stop living in this fantasy world because it's not real. If you immerse yourself in this stuff, you'll never be satisfied with the real thing.
I've recently found my husband on here and believe me, everything he's said is a load of shit! He's not single, we're not getting divorced (although I fully intend to kick the shit out of him for what he's been doing! And he can kiss his internet access goodbye), and quite frankly, I can't believe the conversations and web-videos many of you have had/sent him. HE'S A COMPLETE STRANGER TO YOU FOR GOD'S SAKE! What the hell are you thinking? If you want to have sex with a stranger, go pick up a one-night stand - at least that's real!
I mean really, would you go to a club and masturbate in front of everyone there? Of course not! So why are you doing this on the internet with the entire world watching? Or just some stranger you've never really met before and probably won't ever meet?
Most of you are average, everyday people with everyday lives. You're not exotic dancers or exhibitionists. So why would you do these things on-line? What would you do if someone you actually knew saw them? What would you do if your mother or daughter saw you? Really, some things really should be kept private.
But believe me, the guy you meet on-line doesn't care about you the way you think, you don't have some "magical" connection, and he really doesn't miss you - kiss, kiss, hug, hug. He's just a pathetic middle aged overweight guy going through some sort of mid-life crisis. And don't say he wouldn't do this if he was happy at home! Bullsh*t! You women are making it so easy, it's like throwing money at a millionaire -- they may have all they want but they'll always take more if it's free!
I actually look as good and am the same size and shape that I was 20 years ago - it's him that hasn't aged as gracefully. And yet I'm the one that's here every day, through the good & bad, the boring & mundane. These guys are only showing you their highlights - they aren't like this on a day-to-day basis.
So come on ladies, grab your self-respect and go meet some real, live people and stop wasting your time with these bozos!
