Darsinhous's blog: "Overly single"

OK, here is my problem.  I truly love and respect women.  Probably part of the reason my ex was able take advantage of me for so long.  However, I am also seriously in need of some sex.  I love my female friends and would not want to do anything to jeopardize those friendships.  My preference is to find someone with relationship potential, or a friend with benefits.  However. at this time I would be happy for a one night stand.  I mean come on!  It's been a year and a half!

I am getting damn sick and tired of not finding a woman who can see that I am worth having around.  True, I am not working, and I am overweight.  Well you know something?  That doesn't matter.  The fact that I am a good man should matter a hell of a lot more than that.  And so what if I am fat?  I am still good looking.  I have a warm smile and great eyes.  Yeah, I have pain issues in my legs and can't work, so that makes me unworthy?  I don't think so.  Not only am I a good conversationalist, cook and singer, but I happen to be a fantastic lover!  And no I am not bragging, nor am I going to start any stupidity about how hung I am.  I am just being frank and honest.  Another reason for keeping me around.  The single best thing about me is that I am a good and devoted father.  But that doesn't matter does it?  Because I don't have six-pack abs (I have a keg) and I'm not a financial success story I am not worth dating?  How the bloddy hell does that figure? 

I like having my female friends, and this is in no way meant for you.  This is me venting about all of the externally beautiful women who look at me like something disgusting that died.  They will never know what they have passed over!