IF A MAN WANTS YOU, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making
excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or
spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change
yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is
better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes
you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A
friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like
he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because
you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year
later for staying when things are not better. The only person you
can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch
of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them
when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain
boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak
up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you
later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from
within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you
are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make
him into a quasi-god. ! He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's
man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man
will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are
NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the
bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal
between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal
with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should
never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of
two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be
Mr.. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know
where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes
it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you
everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know
others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone
SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They
say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to
forget them.
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