SINGLE MEN DO NOT WRITE US OR ADD US AS FRIENDS!!! ONLY COUPLES AND HOT LADIES (straight or Bi) CAN CONTACT US. We like same room play.We are a very, very happy married cpl of 13.5 yrs and going strong. We will respect your relationship as you will ours. We like camping (outdoors), fishing (catfishing), dancing (reg. and country), hot tubs (yours), massages (m/f,m/f). AEONS (OKC_CPL AKA $L$) treasures all friendships who want them. We like working out (if time permits)to stay healthy, but we aren't perfect hard bodies (we wish). He has an athletic build.We are clean and attractive and generally try to take care of ourselves, but we don't freak out when the occasional brownie sundae proves too tempting to resist! And frankly, those who do freak out at the thought of an occasional indulgence probably are not a good match for us. Mrs has 36DD Natural breasts and a sweet curvy bootie. She says: I am bi socially, but not a lesbo---I like the feel of a man the most, but a pretty lady we both enjoy the attention. Bi-girls just take your time to see if I want to play--GO SLOW and it might work out on its own! I don't chase women. I've had a few playtimes with some ladies. If I want it, I will let you know, but my man plays with you too at the same time. If you don't like that then stop here to read further. We are a fun cpl to know and play with. We are non-pushy people if that matters to you both. We prefer to find small and intimate Cpl/groups to hang out with over dinner, drinks/dancing and stimulating conversation. We also enjoy occasionally hosting private house parties for our lifestyle friends!Our profile isn't a set of rules, but LIKES and DESIRES. Nothing is written in stone and we can be flexable most of the time. You cannot get a "yes" without risking a "no". So be brave enough to see if you can get a "YES"!!!! The worst that can happen is a "no" and you press on. We do... Please be real...we are. Our hope is to meet other discrete, well-educated, and classy couples (i.e. NOT single men) who seek and value open friendships, where nothing is too taboo to discuss together. Sometimes we discover new and unrealized fantasies just by conversing with others. Sexy and erotic conversation is such a turn-on when done in person! THIS MAY BE LONG WINDED, BUT WORTH READING: SOFT SWAP FIRST BEFORE FULL SWAP and it may happen in one night....winks!!! If you want to play---read on. MEN WHO LOOK (she said, "Looks") OVER 50 YRS OLD THEN THE MRS MIGHT NOT PLAY WITH...she will decide that. FIRST--if you have no pics on your profile or unwilling to send face pics via reg e-mail then pass to the next profile. We don't collect pics!!!! If you say you will, then do it. Don't ask to see our privs unless you unlock yours first. SECOND: We are looking for attractive cpls (don't have to be perfect, but look good--males the most for her and females for him)who are in a committed (in-love) stable, relationship. We are attracted to married cpls the most, but long term cpls are ok. Couples, don't waste our time if you want to just watch the girls play! That's fun for about 5 minutes max. Cpls who want to make friends and bonus play later if all 4 say yes. Non-pushy cpls are more attractive to us. We will not promise playtime within the first 3 dates.....the mrs will decide that and we have broken that rule a few times....lol. Working up to it makes it all more desirable once you get us. Cpls/females that want to romance us (not gropping) instead of wanting an instant lay upon meeting. We like cpls who don't have sex on their mind all the time (men the most)and tend to take care of themselves with body (a little extra fat is ok (like us), but not overly fat) and grooming habits. Mr likes a lady who gives him LOTS of physical attention and flirts (be aggressive). Mrs like a gentelman who gives her sweet attention with kind words and not fake flattery words to whoo her over---be real. We both like to feel wanted mentally as well as physically. WE PLAY AS A TEAM---NEVER SOLO!!! We want you too also to be a team. WE BOTH PLAY. NO SINGLE MEN OR CHEATING HUSBANDS/Boyfriends NEED REPLY.--THX!!! Must be Drug/STD free--like us. We are both VAS safe, but CONDOMS are a MUST!! If you look older than your age posted (in person) then we know you are most likely not honest (big turn-off). If we contact you, we are going off the pics you have posted. MRS SCREENS ALL CPLS (even in person) and Mr does most of the writing (Mrs will write at times if she sees what we like). If Mrs says "no", don't take it personally--she looks for "sex appeal" in men in "her eyes" not your mates eyes. She has final say (so do I) and it all depends if she feels a physical/mental attraction to the male half. OUT OF STATERS: are more than welcome to contact us. We might not travel a lot, but who knows what could happen if you always stay in contact. We cannot promise playtime if you travel unless everything fits perfect (like staying in contact now-and-then). A cpl MUST agree to be attracted to BOTH of us in order for contact (mf and mf). MEN: If you cannot make her laugh I doubt you will pass the mental attraction. If you smoke, a friendly breath mint or gum is proper for kissing.We like to play ONLY if the night is young (our bodies aren't peaking much after midnight and less if we have had a few drinks in our system) and out on a date. When we go to swing clubs we tend to be more on a social mode rather than a "Play" mode. We don't get out much, so it is nice to flirt with the many cpls we have met.We have had a few playtimes with cpls and still looking to find that cpl or three that floats our boat for regular playtimes locally. Our out-of-town friends we do like to play with when we go clubbing with them and they come into town. In and Out of the bedroom fun is a must. Our fantasies are pretty basic. Have a cpl or female that both of us find sexually and mentally attractive, and can have fun in and out of the bedroom with us both at the SAME TIME. Mr IS A PLAYER. Everybody has fun, not just 2. We like to have a cpl or female who really turns us on by flirting in a tastefull manner. We both love to dirty dance on the dance floor and my man loves to have his hands roam all over a lady in a teasing way. I've seen him in action and the ladies love it. You get him on the dance floor with some trance music he will get you HOT by the time he is done teasing you on the floor. I like to bump and grind on a man while dancing to the point it drives him up the wall. So which cpl out there wants to dance? We only have 1 free weekend a month to meet new friends or just to go out. We have 2-3 kids to take care of so meeting is "the roll of the dice"--hope your lucky number comes up---smiles. Include your e-mail addy/pics for contact if serious. We are NOT pic collectors---we just want to see if we are attracted to you both. Tell us a little about yourself as a person/cpl. Also--my wife isn't the bait----we BOTH are. Cum say hello now that you have read this far----even to just say hello!!! Sorry it was so long, but we believe to lay out who we are upfront. That way you don't have to second guess us. Another Note: We never play on the first few meetings....right! Convince us to do so then we might...lol. Just make sure we aren't drunk and LATE at night (morning) because we might not get tingled in all the right places...both of us. If the Mrs says she is tired (sleep) or hungry that means she is ready to go to sleep or she wants food after clubbing. That don't mean she is interested in having sex, but she is too tired or hungry to have sex. So, with that stated, there is far less stress in meeting and having sex if it is late at night. SO START EARLY for PLAY!! We think it benefits both sides in that we can all go home and talk about what we really think of the other couple. Lets have fun, flirt and tease in public and not have regrets! Let's build up to the tension, but "never" is a bad word right? So, we won't say "never", but "never expect" sex. Sound better? Out-of-towners we might have to flex this if we all click just right.Second Side Note: We are totally in love with each other!!! Our interest in the lifestyle is not to replace each other, but to further explore all aspects of our sexuality as a couple. We're looking for people that have this same approach, who want to meet other genuine people to exchange sexual energy in a discrete and sensually-charged environment. If we decide to meet people for dinner and drinks, it is for just that--dinner and drinks. We don't like any form of pressure. If there is a good vibe with EVERY person, then we may move forward. But simply agreeing to meet does not mean we're ready to strip! Besides, good things come to those who wait. We are pretty straight-forward and we hope others will be the same way with us. After a few exchanges, if we or you decide there just isn't a good connection/vibe, let's save time and just say "No thanks." Trying to match 4 different personalities inevitably takes some trial and error, so this simple courtesy should be utilized by all. We enjoy the lifestyle, but it does not rule our lives. Thus, please be patient for us to reply. We tend to reply to EVERY new e-mail unlike some others do on this site. If not interested then say so!!!!!