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Guys, are you tired of being put in the doghouse and do not know why?  Are you tired of your woman being irritated at you for the stupid stuff you do?  Ladies, are you sick of your man not caring enough to bring you flowers?  Possibly, open a door?  Are you tired of them just not listening as if they do not care??????

     Check this out...  This will help even in the slightest way.  I want men and women to comment, its purpose it to bring back the respect and the caring for women. That has been lost over time.  In the fast paced life of booty calls and texts.  This is real, Men we need to take the time to listen, show the women that we are there and we will do nice things.  So many guys put on the facade that they are a nice guy until they get the woman and boom they revert to being the asshole.  It just can not be done.  In addition, if you do not believe me.  I am going to laugh if your woman tells you to read this.

     There will always be a battle in a woman, does she want a nice guy or a bad boy.  The key in any relationship including friendship, marriage, or dating is COMMUNICATION.   People lack the communication now.  It seems that sex is the worst form of communicating.  Yes, it relieves stress,  but it does not when everything else is failing.  Take the time to read below it may just help you.

     I am, not saying you have to turn into a woman!  I am, saying open up   there are some relationships that have lasted for years because men LISTEN, they bring FLOWERS, they open DOORS and have that respect.  If you go from one relationship to another not getting what you, need.  It may be possible; you like the idea of a nice guy but want the bad boy more.  You need the cross of the bad boy...that cares.  Alternatively, you want what a nice guy has to offer, which is the respect for the woman they are with.  Then, this is for you.  It will have a few tips at the end to help those Bad boys, and the women.  The fact is a lot of women say they want a nice guy...  When they want a bad boy who cares and respects them...  LOL, go figure.  In some cases the women just wants and asshole.  That is fine this may not be for you, but the point is we need to respect the women in our lives.  For the people that want or have kids do not want their daughters with an asshole, so why subject yourself to that as well?

     This is not a blog to get your woman!  I have many amazing women in my life.  People have it wrong, nice guys do not finish last we finish HAPPY!

     I will be posting more stuff in time,  please add your comments.  All comments are welcome.  Possible suggestions, what you would like  to have your man do to show you respect. What works for you in your relationship?  If you choose not to comment, that is fine as well.  It does not bother me.  This was written to help other people in their relationships, not my relationships.  I want men to respect women; the way they should that includes showing it.



     Here are a few tips for the men and women...

Pointers for the men

1.  It is a Thursday; bring a rose or her favorite flower to her for NO REASON...  I am not joking.  You would be surprised what that will do.  I am not suggesting that you do it every day, or once a week.  Women like the spice or new things not a routine...

2.  If you have, disagreements take the time to listen.  Sit there or stand,  but listen it will work wonders.

3.  Take the time to open doors. It takes seconds from your life, but it means it unlocks parts of a woman that shows you care and she is a priority.

4.  If you have, kids show them the respect you have for women.  Not how many you can meet and run through their lives.  I have a four year old I would not do it...

5.  If you say you're going to call just do it!  Yes, she may not stress if you don't, or maybe she is worried.  It could be the last call that you did not make that ended it with an awesome woman.



Pointers for the women

1.  If you like, something that someone in the past, suggest it.  That is fine just do not tell him that. Just say I would like you to do this more. It is a two way street to make you happy which comes with respect.

2.  Take the time to express yourself... thoughts, views, and interests. Most men do not understand the thought process of women. I know this clearly, so we have to connect on other levels.

3.  If the person you are with did something when you first were together and it stops or fades. Make something you do fade. If he brought flowers and now, he does not. Stop cooking if you do that, or doing sweet things for them.  I am NOT saying end the relationship, explain to him. He has  stopped something you enjoy, so you have stopped doing something he enjoys. The key is to communicate.

4.  The key to making you happy is you letting him learn enough about you to do so.  If you have been with bad boys and you meet a nice guy. Give him the chance. Take it slow if it is not something you have experienced. Yes, it will be new and something you may not understand.

5.  Start doing things in your relationship that you think he may like. Try suggesting new things, while being open and honest. You may enjoy them with him. However, do not give up who you are for him. This is about him respecting you.


     If you made it to this point, I am very happy. My goal is to make men and women happy in life. Take the time to smell the flowers or bring them home. It is not that hard.  Many years ago people started courting before they took the next to dating.  Today, people are fine with booty calls and no letting anyone close. What happened to getting to know someone before they wanted to take any further steps? 

     This will be the end of my thoughts of enlightenment.  I hope that they help you  even in the smallest way. Please feel free to comment or email me if you have thougths you would like to add.  I will add a new blog if the interest from others is there.  I am hoping the respect for women... Our mothers, sisters, wives, and our daughters can still be shown. We can make things better.   You have to start somewhere.

      In all intensive purposes, nice guys have been faded out. It is sad that in today's worldviews it is that way. Yet people do not accept that they are the ones, that go out of their way to respect the women in their lives. To show they care.  I have always thought about this, and the disrespect women get and it is sad. Now is the time we show women we as men care. You can still be a bad boy and behind closed doors be sweet. I bet the woman would enjoy that.   Hell open a damn door. Men act as if they do not know how if there is a woman in front of them.  Seriuosly,  we need women to have kids, and to enjoy the comforts in our lives and the stability to make it through each day.  If we do not have women in our lives, every man would be alone as well as every woman. Respected women make our lives so much easier. It is simple show respect where it matters and life will be a whole lot better. If the woman is happy, the man will be.

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