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Well what can I say? I love my wife and at this point in our lives we are going into a polyamorous relationship with her boyfriend joining us on a full time basis. He is moving in the first weekend of November and we all are pretty excited about it. I know that a lot of people can only see the negative aspects of this type of relationship. The difference that I feel that will set us apart is the fact that her and I love each other with our whole beings. I can't deny the feelings that they share with each other. Hell, I encouraged it. She is such a beautiful woman and I absolutely love her to death. We are able to communicate extremely openly and honestly with each other. There isn't anything that we won't talk about. I know my wife and I know her capacity to love.
Her and I spend at least 3 hours a night talking and just being with each other. I am there when she talks with him on the phone and when she web cams with him online. He makes her smile and laugh and that is always a big plus in any womans life. The fact that she is able to be open and honest with me really helps their relationship as well as my wife and I in ours. There isn't anything that he is better at or worse at. It is both physical and emotional for all of us. My wife is a beautiful woman that loves having two men in her life and I can't ever say no to that. I love seeing her happy and I have seen her happy with other men as well. I am not homophobic and I can and am comfortable with sharing her.
This relationship is more than just sexual though. It is emotional and spiritual. It can't be easy for anyone to choose to live the lifestyle that we are choosing to live. And it really can't be easy to be a single guy coming into an established marriage and being her lover. We all talk about it and can agree to give it an honest go. No hidden agenda's or lies. This is all about love and I can respect and accept that.
