Why are relationships so easy to screw up? Let me offer a piece of advice to all of you out there. If you enter a relationship, make damn sure that you and/or your partner are not in love with or have a crush on someone else. This will kill your relationship before it has a chance to begin. If both you and your partner are in this class, don't think this makes things any better. It actually makes things sooooo much worse. It's extremely unhealthy, and any good friend will tell you so. So, what are your options? As far as I can see, you have only three: 1. Break up with your partner because the relationship is unhealthy. 2. Discuss this problem with your partner extensively and then decide what to do together. 3. Get theraputic help, either alone or with your partner. Of course i'm referring to myself. My girlfriend will no doubt read this and when she does will have many questions, as will several other people involved, particularly one. You know who you are. To both of you, I can say only this: We need to talk.
