Ok I'm not normally one to bitch but I have to get this out in the open and to see if I get any feed back. So please be brutally honest here. I just got back from Iraq in Nov. and was served with divorce papers while over there. 2 months to be exact before coming home. Thats not why I'm bitching here. So here is the thing I was told today that its none of my business who are in my childrens' life. What is she thinking here. I don't bring any of my lady friends or any one like that around them do to the fact of having respect for her and the kids. I am trying to reconnect with my children after being gone for 15 months so in my eyes I think she should have enough respect for me and the children not to be bringing other men into their lives just yet. For christ sakes I don't care who she is dating or what have you don't get me wrong there but its only been 3 months. And her choice in her friends is very questionable right now considering one is a meth head and the other has a record of being abusive.. So please what am I to do?