I don't know how it is for most people, but damn...trying to find a decent guy to date is like searching for a toothpick in a haystack...I'd rather search for a toothpick in a haystack, at least I know I'd find what I'm looking for. I'm ready to throw in the towel. At this point it seems like a completely worthless endeavor...just like this post is on a site like cherrytap. Oh well.