why is it that all men no matter what age will always ask you to trust them when they know in the end they plan on ripping your heart to shreds?you tell them in the begining just be honest with me.if you're in it foe the sex that's fine. that you have kids and that you don't want to be hurt and you don't want your kids to be hurt so you just want this man to be honest with you. but no that's not good enough.they're the ones that say i love you first. then they tell your kids they love them too. they even go as far and tell your kids they want to adopt them.you tell this man not to say things like that but they do it anyway. then when they just up and leave without a word not only are you wondering what happened and your heart is broken and bleeding,but now comes the time when you have to sit your kids down and brek their hearts too. and when they ask you why what do you tell them? you make something up because you honestly don't know why because he wasn't even man enough to give you a reason.my only question is .....IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A MAN TO BE HONEST AT ALL?