A bit about me, in plain speak. I am:

-Kemetic pagan - That's Egyptian reconstructionist for those who don't know the lingo. I'm interested in civil religious discussion, but not interested in conversion attempts. My dad's a Southern Baptist pastor; I grew up deeply immersed in fundamentalism and I know all the tricks. Don't bother trying to preach at me; I probably know your Bible better than you do.

-Polyamorous - That's responsible nonmonogamy. I can date multiple people so long as everyone knows about it, my existing partner[s] are okay with it, and everyone involved is honest and communicates. I'm happily engaged, and not interested in anyone who wants to play games of pretending to be poly until such time as they can "turn me monogamous" or "steal me away". Not gonna happen, sorry.

-Pansexual - Which means I am attracted to people in general, regardless of gender. I do have a strong preference for girls, however; in other genders (male, nongendered, bigendered, transgendered, intersexed...), I prefer androgyny. The little/occasional interest in males I *do* have is satisfied by my fiancé, so - guys, no, I don't really want to date you. Thanks for any interest, but move along please.

-Switch - I'm a switch. I tend to go a bit more submissive in bedplay with masculine people, and a bit more dominant in bedplay with feminine people, but that's a tendency and not a rule. I like D/s dynamics and exploring kink, but I'm not interested in humiliation-play, and I've not really ventured into the scene at large. I stay far away from "training", because the idea of anyone other than a psychology professional attempting behavioral conditioning on someone turns my stomach. I may be a psychology major in college, but I'm not licensed yet, and even when I am, that's not something I'd play with lightly and not something I'd allow anyone else to do on me. It's called being safe, SANE, and consensual, people - responsible kink, not this ego-blind idiocy I've seen out of some moronic "Dominants".

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I am a

pansexual
polyamorous
genderfluid
species-shifting
polytheistic
switch

and what
does all this
make me?

greedy? says a t-shirt and
an icon or three and
(with less humor, more scorn)
the gays and straights and monogamous sorts

indecisive? unable to commit,
choose a this-or-that -
make up my mind, pick a side
define the edges of a solid box
(why must I?
does anyone fit so neat and snug
into such things, with no edges hanging out,
no squeezing into discomfort?)

or maybe
it's just that
I don't believe in absolutes

and maybe
it's just that
I think nothing and no one
stays the same

That we extend beyond the boundaries of skin
and there is more to me than what you see
or even what I show

and there is maybe more to You
than you have ever dared to seek.

I escape definition
because I am a flickering, shapeshifting,
role-changing, look-from-every-angle,
turn-it-on-its-head
jackal-child
bathed in
phoenix-change

I come with a warning label
and it is this:
Under Constant Construction

. . .

Hardhats recommended at all times. :)