Keep it simple.
Coming up with elaborate plans to say
I love you"
may take the focus away from the message.
As grand as it sounds to have a hot air balloon descend
from the sky, spilling out the words in sparkling confetti
over both of your heads, it's more effective
to simply say the words and mean them.
Say it often. . . . Expressing love can
mean different things to different people.
When a woman says,
I love you,"
she is saying,
I deeply care for you and am glad to be a part of your life."
A man's expression probably means,
I feel intensely romantic and want to be with you forever."
Understanding this difference helps women
to understand why men might not express their love as often,
thinking it might diminish his meaning.
A man, on the other hand,
needs to understand a woman's emotional need
to be reassured of his love frequently.
Understand your partner's needs and use expressions
that have meaning for him or her.
As much as you enjoy League Night,
your wife might not be very thrilled
to receive a monogrammed bowling ball.
Think instead of something your loved one
would appreciate as a caring gesture.
Humor is nice, but nice humor is better.
Thinking of something witty
should not turn cruel to be funny.
I made a birthday card for my wife-to-be saying,
(cover)
"Who'd ever guess that such a darling, wonderful, serious,
charming little sweetheart would turn out to be ...
(inside)
... such a darling, wonderful, serious,
charming little sweetheart!"
dont' know how it works at her ??? but, it's my best
to do so for her !!
