There are 3 boxes up top one says MY ALERTS that one tells you when you get inboxes or comments and such, The middle is like a chat, to chat click on the usernames of someone that messaged you and there is a typing area in the popup area type in that.. the 3rd isnt really important because if you want one of them they cost money, but without it you still get so many page views!! BTW here is a 10