Many people are touched bye love every day times are hard and you may fight but deep down inside they care.It may work it may not.All you do is have to look in your heart to find the answer love is not based on sex even though everybody seems to think it is. Its based on the fact that the person is there for you and shows they love you.Anyone can have sex it takes more then that to show you love someone and want to be with them when times are hard look at your self and say im a strong beutiful person and i deserve to be happy this person really cares about me. Never let a spouse get you down or think bad about your self cause you are you and that is what makes you special. Yes love is hard and it hurts when its gone. So cheerish it cause you may never be able to get the person you love back. Love can be a good thing with lots of hugs and kisses and meaning full words but we all get scared when we get to close it causes us to be afraid that we will get hurt if we have already been there. So stay strong think dont ruin your life because once you loose it you may never find it agan. Yes you have your freedom but do you have the person to love no you dont its gone. Even if you meet some one else dont mean they love you because they may just want sex or your money and do you really just want that.