love or lust
Love or lust do you know the diffence? the dictionary describes love as a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties. (2) : attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers (3) : affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests. lust is defined as "a craving, usually intense or unbridled sexual desire" To me it is a blend of love and lust. infact its both lust within love. Isn't it? Love is emotional, or psychological. and lust is visual, or physiological. its hard to balance between physiology and psychlogy. thats why Love is there, and so is the lust. its just a matter of how to decide what is what and for guys not to think with the wrong head. love is the hardest of human emotions to decifer. capable of producing emotions which can make a man want to be a better man to be with that special woman.
To fall in love and to be in love are two of the most erotic and sensual feelings known to man. Love is being bonded to another person in a mutuallysupportive, caring relationship where each partner is not only the other partner's lover, but also their best friend and confidante. and of course theres bodily attraction, which is part of lust. its a natural thing. and of course what i think is a beautiful female may not be the same for others.
love will either hit you in the head or develop over time.
People say that you can fall in love more than once and have a great relationship with that person, but I believe that before you actually love some one it is lust. im not saying its all ways lust i do believe in love at first sight. Love is Intimacy. It's hard not to share each other's deepest secrets and feelings, and not be intimate.
For us Lust is especially dangerous because it causes a guy to think with his cock and not care about anyhting besides gettin some ass. When a guy is in lust he doesn't care if he and his partner have anything in common. He's not interested in where she comes from or where she's going. His brain is only focused on using his key to unlock the door to the secret cave. If his partner's only in lust, she'll use this against him; but if they're both falling in love, this sexuality is a bond. for us lust is a stimulating experience, the brain goes on hold and surges of testosterone run the show. Lust like love is truly blind. This is why, especially at the beginning of a relationship, it can be hard to tell whether you're in lust or love; whether she may be "The One," or merely a piece of ass who'll have your blood boiling for only a short while till the sex become a routine. This is because we men are perfectly capable of just having sex before we forge an emotional bonds with a woman. And our raging hormones and thinking with our other brain can easily disguise themselves as feelings of love.
The real danger is that both lust and love can rob us of our natural strength and defenses. it is very easy to fall gor a girl and not think clearly. a pussy is a very powerfull tool. when she uses it against you. when she tells you that your "cut off until" you listen very close to those next few words, so that you can get right back in there.
So, if you believe you are in love with someone that seems to be very dear to your heart, look at them and figure out what you see there. do you see her naked bent over ask you to just take her even when shes clothed, or do you look deep in her eyes and wonder how to maker even more happy by giving a hug or maybe suprising her with a rose or a candle lit dinner. I would hope that I would realize if its love or lust before it was too late. Relationships begin with lust and some end with love. Its something that doesnt happen overnight. Love is something that grows on you, but lust helps out with the beginning process. We all lust after people and say that we love them but it isnt until we fully know that person, we love them for who they truly are. i think most people lust because we dont want to be alone. i dont think anyone wants to be alone. i think thats my biggest fear is to grow old alone.
who is my soulmate? i have no idea. she could be the girl im seeing right now. shes smart, beautiful, and i wouldnt change a thing. when i see her or hear her voice my heart patters and i get an overwelming rush of testoterone or what ever it is.its a great feeling, but is it love or lust? could she be the one for me? who knows, only itme will tell. i may never meet her in this life time. I know she is out there somewhere. will I be ready for cupid to shoot me with his arrow of love and be able to know that its love and not lust. no idea. But for the moment, i will enjoy what i have right now, I guess Ill just play with the wrong ones until that time comes.
