i dont understand men and never will. they can tell you how much they love you and then turn and tell the next chick how sexy they are and how they want them. how is that love? why do women put up with that crap? do we really think we deserve it? that its somehow our fault? then women.....why is it that some women can talk to men on here or anywhere and know that they have a gf/wife and yet they want to talk sex to them. ask them out, get naked for them. basically do anything to ruin the relationship the guy has. do the women not think about the other woman? men dont think about anything else when they are thinking below the belt. yet why is it that people just dont care who they hurt anymore? also how is it that you can be so good to someone and they can still not think twice about hurting you? so what do we do?????