this is my third marriage and i wonder will this one finally work.........i have found someone who knows me all my bad doings and still loves and accepts me for me and lets my play too......but how much love does it take to make a marriage work i dont know... or i wouldnt be on 3rd one.....i dont know i know control is not the answer...that happended in the first one.....the second husband i loved with all my heart and i=got it stomped on......still part of me loves him.....and this one will it last only time will tell if we have what it takes