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this is what i have learned the hard way. maybe it can help someone not to make the same dreadful mistakes.
a while ago i lost someone extreamly dear to my heart, do due no one but myself. and she left. it wasnt just my love that i scared away, she was my best friend. i was egotistical, stubborn, i had to be right all the damn time, i couldnt sdmit that i was wrong, and this led to arguments. like an addmission of guilt was a sign of weekness or something, its not, its a sign of maturity. and i wasnt right all the time, not even half the time. it was " i am man hear me roar", and it was very wrong. i didnt listen. she would offer advise, her point of veiw, and i was taken as critisizem. i let the little things bother me and get in the way. i would always talk about money, stupid. i brought aggravation from work home, and that was very wrong. the little things she asked me to do, like put another beer in the fridge after i grab one. and i couldnt do that. she told me that other guy came out when i did that, and she was right. but that guy has been killed off for good. documents, bills, cards, everything the name was on, was gotten rid of. i have done alot of soul searching and fixing, i squared things with god, and forgave my bio-mother, for things that happend 26 years is too long to carry a hatred. and i am myself again. the other guy never to surface again. every remnant of how that person was is gone. i even got rid of my sharks. traded them in for koi. they are strong, but peaceful and humble. the way i was when she and i met many years ago. i am myself again and thats never goin to change again, EVER. i was a fool, an ass, a bastard, any word you can think of would prety much fit. and i am truely eternally sorry. i know words can lose strength, so i pray i get a a chance to prove that i am myself for good. so what i have learned is this...
1 listen to your women. shes right more than you are.
2 when she offers her oppinion, or point of veiw, try it out.
3 dont bring work home.
4 LISTEN TO HER.
5 remember she is your friend too. she wants to help.
6 addmit when you are wrong.
7 DONT ARGUE, TALK IT OUT.
8 dont do what i did.
9 FORGIVE AND LET GO.
I HOPE THIS HELPS ANYONE WHO READS IT, IF ANYONE WANTS TO COMMENT FEEL FREE TO PLEASE.
