Kinky Sex, Mind Blowing Sex Here's one of the interesting facts about those with very hot, very kinky sex lives that I've discovered I research - those who have mind blowing crazy sex are a) great communicators about their wants and needs b) they take responsibility for making it happen. People (and I mean both men and women here) who have amazing sex lives (the sort that would make us drool with envy) take their sex lives very seriously and they make sure to make what they want happen by communicating very honestly with their partners and taking all of the necessary steps to learn what they need to learn in order to make what they fantasize about happen. There is, after all, an art to tying all of those bondage knots. So if you've got something new you want to try out you're going to have to speak up about it! Will you do what it takes to make it happen