I want to know why it is that the more we try to insteel good things into our children the more they have to go the other way with it? I have always told my 18 yr old daughter that she doesn't need a man to be happy that her education is more important than anything in the world but she insist on being with a guy that can't hold a job and is hindering her chance at going to college. I want someone to tell me why this is??? Will she ever open her eyes and see that this guy is only holding her back? And should I push the issue with ehr after they have been together for 2 yrs?