im not the type to judge a book by its cover i have to read inside more to learn about how you are and how you will treat me and my kids that is really important if you cant except my kids then it wont work thier the most important thing in my life and nothing will change that....im looking for that one girl that can bring the wall i have built around my heart down and prove to me you really care i have been hurt so many times its hard to fall in love but im hopin i can find that one girl that can show me there not all the same and show me there really is a such thing as true love i want a long distance realationship not someone that is going to up and leave in just a short time after getting together....i treat everygirl i get wit respect and want it in return i dont control them or tell them what they can and cant do you are your own person you make the choices i dont make them for you i know a girl needs there time away just as much as us guys do but i do like to be wit my girl most of the time...i want a girl that likes what i like walkin on the river, takin the kids to the park, and just cuddelin and watchin a movie stuff like that...and one more thing you have to get along wit my family and be like part of the family cause my family will accept you no matter what as long as your not stuck up or to good for them and not say a word dont be shy make conversation they might be your family one day to...