One sould always remember,"dont judge a book by its cover or because of ones own issues". Both sides of a story should always be heard no matter who you are or who your friends are. It isn't for us to judge!
Those that mind are usually those that cannot take the truth.
Perhaps one should look into the mirror and take responsibility for their own actions and words.
And, if one insists on judging, perhaps one should find out both sides and facts before judging.
have an awesome day and hugs to those that do matter - true friends!